Archive - Choosing Herself

What are you storing?

Taking inventory of the boxes that define us

Jul 9 • Jody Delichte|Choosing Herself

More free. More overburdened.

Jul 2 • Jody Delichte|Choosing Herself

June 2026

I don't want to fit in a box

On the expectations we fight and the ones we don’t see

Jun 25 • Jody Delichte|Choosing Herself

I chose myself instead of waiting to be chosen

On self-doubt and the permission we think we need

Jun 18 • Jody Delichte|Choosing Herself

Feeding the monster

On busyness and never feeling enough

Jun 11 • Jody Delichte|Choosing Herself

I blinked and eleven years had passed

On busyness and what it takes from you

Jun 4 • Jody Delichte|Choosing Herself

May 2026

I was a workaholic

On where we get our sense of worth

May 28 • Jody Delichte|Choosing Herself

Apparently I have too much energy

On enthusiasm, judgment, and staying fully yourself

May 21 • Jody Delichte|Choosing Herself

Vulnerability was for everyone else

Until I found the strength in it

May 14 • Jody Delichte|Choosing Herself

I told myself I wouldn't end up a bag lady

And then I quit my job

May 7 • Jody Delichte|Choosing Herself

April 2026

Just wanting it should be enough

And other things I learned on the way to my Fuck Off Friday message

Apr 30 • Jody Delichte|Choosing Herself

Some mornings you just have to run

Because sometimes the shoulds can wait

Apr 23 • Jody Delichte|Choosing Herself

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